I have not been writing; but i feel like doing it now.
One of my best friends has got engaged in Burma around early July of this year. I only found out he has got engaged; from my cousin. I just simply told my cousin; oh - he didn't tell me because he might think that I could not attend the engagement in Burma. But the thing is he is also living in Singapore and it is not like he cannot let me know because of distance and what is not; well - it would be nice if we were aware of it as best friends. I didnt ask other friends of if they know this engagement though.
I saw him the other day and I asked him shamelessly of why I didnt get to know his engagement as we have been friends since kindergarten. He just simply answered; " did you even call me once these days? " I didn't and he didn't too. But I understand everyone is busy though. I do not make phone calls not only to him for a chat; but also to none of my best friends. I am not into calling my friends and talking on the phone as I age by.
Ok this does not have any clear image of what is really going on I know; I dont wanna write alot too; but what i wanna say now is - as he comment like that on my question; the effort should have started from me. If i cant do that effort; I should not even have asked him of why he didnt have invited me or letting me know of the engagement.
It also gives me some thoughts of dilemma myself if we were not even best friends from his side of friendship; not letting me know of this good news.
Its ok; life goes on; he is still my best friends forever.
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Don't find C box on your blog. so want to say Hi.. on comment box. :)
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